Tying the knot is a crucial decision of a woman’s life. But when she makes this decision, it never comes alone. It is always accompanied by an array of new responsibilities and of course, a whole lot of annoying questions. While trying to adjust in a new household is an edgy task for the newly wed, the people around her tend to make it even more difficult for her. No sooner she enters into the world of the new relationships then people start throwing annoying questions at her. But people, please avoid throwing these 10 bothersome questions at her.
1. When are you having kids?
Okay, she just got married! Let her breathe and live the new life she has been awarded recently. You want a baby to play, go somewhere else. A woman is definitely not a baby-making machine. There’s a lot more to marriage than just reproducing. And after all, it’s a very personal decision which depends entirely on the woman and her husband. People should mind their own nosy business.
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2. How much are you spending on your marriage?
People ask this question as if they are going to fund the marriage in case the bride’s parents fail to. they are already under too much pressure of trying to make everything right. By asking such absurd question, you’ll just get on their nerves and make you the most unwanted guest at the wedding.
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3. Your life will go downhill right from here!
Such a pessimism around. She’s already trying to figure out what her life is going to be and you just extinguished the only ray of hope she’s having. She knows that the honeymoon period does end, you don’t need to play a gentle reminder for her.
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4. Why don’t /do you take your husband’s name?
If she’s taking her hubby’s name in front of the guest, why is she doing so! And if she doesn’t, why is she not doing so. So basically a question is always ready for each and every word she’s going to utter. It’s solely her decision and depends on the comfort level of the duo. The society shouldn’t be a pressure.
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5. Can you still wear your wedding lehenga?
Okay, even if she gained some weight, she knows it more than you do. And why would she even want to fit in her wedding lehenga which is stashed in a suitcase in the store room? Frankly, pointing out the post-wedding weight gain is a bit rude.
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6. How can you spend so much of money on a single day?
Again the money questions shouldn’t be the one among your pep talks. Financial matters are too personal to be discussed in gatherings. And making the bride even guiltier as she’s already feeling guilt-ridden for the cost of her wedding lehenga, this isn’t acceptable.
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7. You look like a wifey now
So what? Looking married after being actually married isn’t something to be ashamed off. It is cool to be grown up and mature. Looking married doesn’t mean that you fall under the category of being ‘Uncool’!
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8. Are you sad it’s over?
Believe me, you’ll be shocked to know that most of the women are glad that the ceremonies are now over. They are tedious and tiresome. And to add to it, the brides are expected to go sleepless for several nights. Who’ll be sad for this to be over?
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9. Why didn’t you invite Mr. X?
It was her wedding and of course, it should be her choice as to whom to invite to her wedding. She has limited funds and she can’t afford to invite every single person on the planet. And of course, who gets married in a stadium to accommodate 50,000 people!
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10. I really don’t like the groom much
Okay a bit awkward, but you came then? You should be offering your blessings to the newly wed not demonstrating your disapproval of the marriage.
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