Husband-wife do share an intimate bond with each other, but they can’t share the same privacy with each other after having kids. Though unwillingly, they have to maintain some distance in the presence of their kids. When they are around, you have to forget about your relationship and come out as friends with each other. You have to hold your relationship in utter respect. You shouldn’t do any such thing which leaves a deep impact on your child’s mind.
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Today we will discuss 4 such things which being a parent, you shouldn’t do in front of your kids.
1. Kissing
Husband-wife should keep this in their mind that they don’t share any physical intimacy in the presence of their kids. This can put a negative impact on your kid. Your acts can make them think about it longer than you’ve ever imagined. They will keep on pondering about what their parents were really doing. Sometimes, they can even presume things that you love each other more than you love them. You can simply give a peck on each other’s’ cheeks. But don’t indulge in French kissing.
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2. Disrespecting Each Other
Teach your child to respect women. And it starts from this tender age already. If you both fight and disrespect each other in the presence of your kid, he will pick up your slangs and most probably do the same with his fellow mates. Never hit your spouse in front of your kids, cause that’s what you kid will be picking up from you.
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3. Not Holding the Privacy
It is obvious that husband-wife do wish to spend some intimate moments with each other. But that doesn’t mean that you don’t respect your privacy in front of your kids. When your kid is old enough to sleep on his own, make him a separate room for himself. Designate a proper sleeping time for him and get him in the bed at the same time every day.
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4. Displaying Sensuality
Sometimes couple does forget about their surroundings under the heat of the environment. But never forget that your kids are watching you and learning things which they shouldn’t be at their age. They can be misguided and seek information from the forbidden places. You shouldn’t do such things in their presence. And if your kid is old enough to understand these things, then you yourself give him a proper education about his/her body and sex, before he/she starts learning from outside sources.
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Parents should never cross their boundaries in front of their kids. You can do as you wish behind the closed doors but crossing your limits in front of your kids can be fatal for them. These thinks can make them think otherwise about you and they can even counter argue with you. So avoid these things if you don’t wish such things to happen.
