We don’t need to elaborate why your wedding night is special. Of course, it has to be. After all, you’re going to spend the first night together being officially entitled to do so. For people who don’t know their partner much, as in the case of arranged marriage, they find it really hard time to make judicious moves during the whole span. How to impress him/her or how to make the night a rocking one are just a few questions that keep strolling on their minds. But here we’re going to tell you about the things YOU SHOULD NOT do on your first night.
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1. Don’t Try to Be Too Much Sporty
Sometimes, it is good to be under control. And the bed is certainly not the playground where you can establish your superiority, despite being a novice. Let him control the things and let yourself be the submissive for the first few times. It builds a nice impression of you on him.
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2. Don’t Talk About Past
Your bed is not the place to talk about the things of the past. And the time is, certainly not right. Don’t discuss your past with your partner at this time. Both the time and occasion is not right. Let the bygones be bygones. And start your life afresh.
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3. Don’t Be Too Shy!
Yes, this point truly contradicts the first one. But not taking the lead doesn’t mean that you start playing Rakhi from the Kabhi Kabhi song video. An overly shy bride looks good only in movies. Being too shy can turn your partner off. There’s a fine line in being feminine and being too shy.
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4. Never Try Woman-On-The-Top Position
This can make you appear too open to your partner. He might also feel intimidated by it. Men think that first timer women are usually shy in bed and this concept is somewhat true to some extent. But if you take the lead and try something off the track, things won’t end up the way you’re willing
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5. No Condoms=No Sex!
This is the simple rule which you should be following. The ‘other’ methods sometimes fail to do their magic. You won’t be liking to land into something ‘unexpected’ during the first year of your marriage. After all, you might have to face the leg pulling and countless of questions from your relatives! 😛 so invest in some protection and plan everything beforehand.
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6. Don’t Bring in Your Fantasies
No, a big no! your first night is not the time to bring up your forbidden desires. Let your inside animal sleep a little more till your partner is comfortable with you up to that level. Let it be the sober love making session and cuddles, of course. The fantasies might increase the tension between you and your partner. And who knows you might wake up with a disaster!
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7. Not Shaving Your *You Know*
Accepting your partner, the way he is something. But arriving on your first night with a grizzly bear avatar is something unacceptable. Men like to see their partners well-groomed and perfectly shaved. So let your ‘grizzly bear fantasies’ unravel sometimes later.
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8. Not Wearing the Appropriate Lingerie
Come on, at least spare the whites now! Make the preparations beforehand. Buy yourself a smoking hot pair of lingerie and surprise your husband with your ravishing beauty.
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9. Being On Your Periods
Okay I know this is something which is not in your hands. but you can definitely do something about that. If you’re having your periods due around, then try to not have your wedding at that time. But still if the wedding can’t be postponed, you can try some natural methods to delay your periods or bring them early.
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10. Making Funny Noises
Some noises are good for creating some heat in the bedroom. But not all! You don’t have to squeak like a duckling even if you’re feeling like doing so.
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