Can a woman who is in her 30’s witness low sex drive? Yes, it may happen sometimes, but when too many report it at the same time then it becomes a matter of concern.
Sexologists in India say that these days increasing the number of couples complaining low sex drive of one or both partners visit them at their clinics and hospitals. The reason behind it seems the hormonal imbalance in their bodies.
They say this hormonal imbalance is now mostly induced by birth control pills whose consumption has increased more than a thousand times in India in past one decade.
These sexologists also told us the ways of recovering the lost sexual drive in a male or female.
Scroll down the page to read them one by one.
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1) Sexologists blame unhealthy lifestyle and underlying medical issues as the reason behind the low sexual drive of these females. They say most of these women suffer from stress, which brings resentment in their relation. So they advised them to live a stress-free life, adopt a healthy lifestyle and treat underlying medical problems.
2) Sexologist says it seems low sex drive does not wait for the menopause of women now as these girls under 30 have also begun to complain of low sex drive. They say it could have many causes behind it.
3) “In some cases it could be because of fluctuation in estrogen level in the bodies of females that proves detrimental for sex urge,” a sexologist who is running a clinic in the vicinity of the New Delhi Railway station. He said that these people should not hesitate from consulting a doctor who may recommend a hormone therapy for them and very soon their intimacy drive will touch new heights.
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4) Sexologists say an emotionally disturbed woman should not expect a super performance in bed because her mind and body does not work in coordination. So to prevent her sex life from going into the doldrums, she should cheer up herself and at least made an attempt to figure what is bothering her.
5) Shyness does not belong entirely to females, some males are also shy in the bedroom, in fact, more than their female partners. A male who feels shy before her wife will obviously spend less time in bed with wife, this will bring resentment in their life.
6) The best solution which sexologists recommend for them is that the female partner shall encourage and make her shy partner comfortable through kissing and caressing.
7) “The female partner of the shy male shall not wait for his call, she should lead from here, and if the problems persist for a longer time than, they can also take the help of a professional or discuss boundaries between the two.
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8) Sexologists said that when they asked women questions about their relationship with partners, the majority of them answered that their partners in bed, ignore and devalue their suggestions, they take them for granted and undermine their position in the relationship.
9) They say this issue could be solved only if their partner understands them well and begins valuing their suggestions.
10) What has been witnessed in the recent time that couples have begun to reserve sex for some special days like marriage anniversary and birthday. This is not considered a healthy sign for the relationship. So sexologist advice ladies to keep a fancy lingerie hanging always on the front wall of the bedroom and use expensive bed linen at least two three times in a week.
11) “You can rekindle your relationship by planning surprise dates, nights and exchanging of gifts,” the sexologists say.
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12) The medicines we take to cure our health problems can result in a dip of sex urge by crashing our libido, health experts say. Even the birth pills ladies consume can sometimes backfire and depress libido in females. Health disorders like high blood pressure and anxiety, etc. also result in a dip in libido. The best method is to treat disorders and live a stress-free life.
