Any relationship is not completed without some sweet incidences and bitter memories. Whether it is between the boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife.
At the time of any difference of opinions or little or sometimes big tiffs between them lead to some serious repercussions. Once you are confronting your girlfriend and eventually it turns out to be an argument you usually try to control yourself but sometimes by mistake you just say some things which can hurt your girlfriend.
Girls are comparatively a little more emotional, sensitive than man. So, whenever you are into any argument try to avoid a few harsh words which can hurt your girlfriend anyway.
So, next time keep these 6 things in your mind during an argument.
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1- Don’t try to relax her
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During an argument, it is obvious that you try to relax your partner. But it’s not good all the time to do so. Sometimes when your girlfriend is too mad at you and you try to relax her, she can misunderstand you and start thinking that she is not so important or the thing she is fighting for, is not important to you as well. So, try to avoid this.
2- Don’t use I love you as sorry
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When your girl goes mad at you and you obviously try to keep her calm, and say I love you to stop the argument. It just starts another argument that you don’t take these words seriously or she and her feelings are just a joke for you. Try to end your fight with normal statements, don’t give such kind of statement during arguments.
3- Don’t avoid fight by saying I don’t know what to say
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Don’t try to stop a fight by saying such kind of statement because when you use these arguments, she starts thinking that you are not serious on what she tries to explain you or it’s not important to you why she got mad at you.
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4- Don’t compare her with someone else
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While you are in an argument, don’t say that you are like your mom or you are like my ex. Such unnecessary comparisons may cause so many doubts in her mind. That you try to insult her or you don’t know the importance of her. She starts thinking that she is not important in your life.
5- Never abuse her
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No matter how bad the conditions are, never abuse her. No matter what is she saying but abusing her is just not acceptable morally. So, never abuse you girlfriend in any argument. Give her respect even in your arguments.
6- Don’t try to stop your fight without solving the problem
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Sometimes when you are not in mood to fight or fight lingers on, you just simply say, ok I’m sorry, now you are happy? You try to stop fighting but this will extend your fight rather. Because, without solving the problem if you say sorry, she knows that you are not feeling sorry but just try to avoid her.
