We found it so cool to say this adage loud, “Everything is fair in love and war”. Well, this doesn’t hold true at some places. Love is more or less like a game… which like any other game have its own regulations. One should abide by those commandments of love when in a relationship.
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There is no specific rule book that is passed on to you when the cupid strikes you. But there are still some hard and fast rules you should be following while diving deep into the choppy waters of love. Beware that you don’t lose balance, cause if you did, there’s no getting back. So here are 7 such commandments which should be held in high regards when in a relationship.
1. Don’t do anything that you don’t want him to do.
Have you heard about this phrase “Do unto others as you want them to do unto you”? yes, that one! If you want him to stay away from his ex, you should be doing that yourself. If you don’t want him to have late night conversation with his girl friends, then don’t do it yourself. Rules should be same for both of you. You can’t just set rules for him while secretly doing all you like without letting him know.
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2. Don’t forget your friends
Remember the time when your special someone didn’t walk into your life? Who was there by your side? Your friends, of course. There are some people who forget their friends the moment they get into a romantic affair. And this is not fair, I must say! This is lethal even for your relationship.
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3. Be specific about your feelings
Don’t say ‘I Love You’ if you don’t really mean it. There’s a difference between Love and Like. Don’t mistake one for the other. Contemplate on it before uttering anything.
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4. Talk to each other
Remember this that the relationship is between two people. You and your partner are the only ones who should be one taking the decisions for the relationship. If there’s some problem between you two, discuss it out. Your problems don’t need a third party involvement.
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5. Never Cheat
Cheating is way more serious than you can imagine. It damages the self-esteem of your partner and he might stop believing in the thing called love. Cheating is not the solution to boredom. If you’re feeling boredom in your relationship, then try to zest it up. If you think that the things are not working well between you two, just walk out of it. Cheating is just not right!
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6. Don’t Compare
Never ever compare your partner with anyone else. When you compare your partner with someone else, just dig that you’re not with that person. Accept the person you are with presently or else you can walk out to be with the person you like. So just be happy what you have with you.
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7. Take Care of Him or Someone Else Will
You don’t have time for him? You’re not able to tell how much you care for him? Dig this simple fact that if you’re not there for someone, then he can find someone else to be there for him. So you have to be caring towards your partner or else you have to bear the sight of someone else taking care of your partner.
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