Some fights are meant to develop more intimacy between a couple. When you come out of such battles, you’re more in love with each other.
So the best couple isn’t the one who doesn’t fight at all, but the one who comes out even more shining, out of the battle.
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1. Sometimes You Have to Be the One to Bring Up the Issues
Usually, it is the women who bring up the issues in a relationship. It’s not that women always seek problem in a situation. Women are just like a relationship mechanic. They find the errors in a machine called relationship and repair them. If one person isn’t pointing out the issues, the relationship won’t last long.
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2. Your Relationship Will Evolve After the First Baby
Baby consumes the first three years of both the parents. It gets natural that the duo stops paying much attention to the romantic side of their relationship. But these fights are needed. The couples which survive this phase are more likely to end up together forever.
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3. Fighting Over Spending Habits
“You’re such a spendthrift!”. This is not the way to address a money issue between you two. There’s always one among the two who loves to spend. You can have a fight over it and find a solution which honours the both.
Form a strategy to manage your expenses.
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4. Fighting Over House-Cleaning Issues
Such problems often occur in a nuclear family. And when both partners are working, then the problem is even more prominent. Politely tell him to clean the kitchen and don’t forget to reward him for his task (if you know what I mean!)
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5. ‘We Don’t Have Fun Anymore’ Type of Fights
Sometimes, one of the partners has to remind the other that you both aren’t spending quality time with each other. Be friends with each other, and find some time to rekindle your relationship. And why Rekindle? The fire shouldn’t go out at the first place!
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6. Fights Over Relatives Coming Over Unannounced
Maybe they’re being cordial. But there are some boundaries that need to be respected. Don’t let your relatives be too intrusive. Put them in the place before it gets too suffocating.
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7. Why Had You a Fight in the First Place?
Don’t drift away from the main cause of the argument and don’t brush it aside either. Discuss your problem politely and find out a solution that works equally good for both of you.
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