When we get into a relationship we hope for it to last a lifetime and to make that happen both the partners have to make some efforts as well as compromises. But then all you can do is try your best in order to make things happen. But like everything in life relationships too do not come with guarantees. Even the most loving couples part their ways even after spending years with each other and one of the main reasons behind it is infidelity. Though you can save your marriage or find out all this a little early if you look out for the related signs. So to make you a bit more aware we have mentioned below some of the most common signs which indicate that your partner might be cheating on you.
1. Lack of communication- This one is the most obvious one. Communication on a regular basis and in a realistic manner is what defines a healthy and happy relationship. Emails, messages and stick on notes does not count as communication. You shouldn’t take a lot of time to understand that there is something fishy. If the sweet gestures stop coming your way along with the fights which were just too common, then you have all the reasons to think that there is trouble in your paradise.
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2. Sudden consciousness regarding the looks- If you notice that suddenly your spouse or partner has started paying way too much attention to his/her looks or has suddenly started working out, then there are chances that your partner is fishing out on something outside the relationship. Though there are chances that they might be doing it for you but if they are not asking you for your opinion then it is definitely for you. The changes don’t have to be only about the physical appearance, keep an eye on the likes and dislikes as well. For example, their food preferences, music choice, etc.
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3. Too much fighting- Fighting is the sign of a healthy relationship but if your partner picks up fights at the stupidest things and is always looking for an opportunity to create a scene then you have a reason to worry about.
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4. Alleges you of cheating- Nothing is better than shifting the blame on your spouse when you yourself are guilty of cheating on your partner. One thing which always comes in between while you are at fault is your ego. Your ego will never let you accept your mistake and at this time counter blaming your partner seems like a very convenient option. If your partner suddenly starts getting possessive about you talking to a friend or colleague of the opposite sex, then chances are that they are trying to conceal their own infidelity in the name of getting possessive about you.
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5. Too much of overtime- There are times when you have to stay up till late at your office because you have work to get done and sometimes you have to attend a business party. But making an excuse every other day to stay out of home at night is not very normal (when all of this starts suddenly). A better idea is to be sure and clear of what are the reasons which are keeping your partner so busy even so late at night.
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6. Cancel plans- Does it happen often when your partner makes a plan but cancels it at the last moment? Promises to go out for shopping with you and ditches you at the last moment? If these things happen with you very often then these are not just mere coincidences and need your proper attention.
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7. His/her plans do not involve you- There was a time when your partner wouldn’t go anywhere without you and now it’s the total opposite. He/she is totally comfortable with not having you around and that too very often (almost all the time), then take it as a red signal. You better take things in your hands at this time before it gets too late.
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8. Change in sexual behaviour- A sudden change in the sexual behaviour too is a sign of danger. Obviously, there are days when you don’t want to get into the act or you are way too much stressed to get intimate, but continuous headaches and other excuses are just different ways of avoiding “the act”. When all your efforts fail to get your partner into the bed then there are some serious infidelity issues which need to be sorted.
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