A happy relationship doesn’t mean sacrifices and endless commitments towards each other. While it is okay to bend a little sometimes, to maintain a healthy relationship and a balance that makes you two partners. But comprising your identity to please your men at all times is not acceptable ladies!
Of course, to have a happy relationship, it is important to show each other and shower your partner with your love and endless pampering. But putting all the efforts and completely changing yourself for him is not what you want for yourself. That relationship can be anything but healthy and happy.
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If you really want to have a healthy and a happy relationship. Then avoid doing these 6 things to your partner that are spoiling your relationship.
1. Giving Up Your Personal Space & Life
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This might sound good in the beginning, but “I Don’t Need Anyone Else But You In My Life” will be regretful for you later in your relationship. Everyone needs their family and friends apart from their partner. Don’t go overboard to make him feel comfortable around you, leaving all the precious people of your life behind. Respect your personal space and life as much as you respect his. This is the only way to keep a happy relationship.
2. Trying To Be His Mom More Than Partner
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We understand that you love him and care for him, but you need to stop being his mother and start being his partner instead. Peeping all the time and nursing him like a child is good and adorable sometimes, but doing this 24*7 is not only annoying but affects the health of your relationship too. Give him his personal space and make your relationship a two-way road to happiness.
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3. Feeling The Need To Be Right All The Time
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Girls often get aggressive and controlling while it comes to proving things that they think are right. This might be okay sometime, but making it your obsession or a habit, will only ruin your relationship with your partner. Feeling the need to be right all the time might hurt the feelings of your partner and might destroy your relationship with him. Understanding each other is the most important thing rather than proving yourself right to maintain a happy relationship.
4. Being His Follower More Than His Companion
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While picking a restaurant for the dinner or choosing the movie to watch can be a real struggle sometimes, doesn’t mean that you can let him be the boss of you for everything else too. You can’t allow him to tell you to do things his way. Don’t rely on him for everything that you do or want to do. otherwise, you will start to grow resentful towards each other soon. Instead, take turns for things that you want to do and the things that he wishes to do, and you both can live in a happy relationship.
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5. Not Letting Him Lend A Hand While Doing Chores
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You are his partner, not his maid, who does all the house chores herself without expecting any help from him. Why must you bear all the burden of keeping the house clean, or doing the dishes, or cooking all the meals, or keeping the lawn trimmed and the list keeps going on. Divide the work between you two and even a little bit of help will make you feel relaxed and helpful. What else do you want in a happy relationship?
6. Showering With Expensive Gifts All The Time
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You don’t always need to shower him with those expensive gifts, no matter how much he loves and adores them. You must understand that maybe he might be liking them now, but eventually, he’ll either get habitual or start to feel guilty for not being able to get such expensive things for you. Which, BTW, are both the bad things to have to happen in a relationship. Keep it simple and real, and you will face lesser problems in your happy relationship.
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Personal Advice
One thing that we would like to advise you on is that a happy relationship is built on understanding and trust on each other. Looking at your relationship as a burden or “your responsibility” will only ruin it. And if you think that you are in a relationship with an immoral person, then the best thing to do is to walk away from it, not staying and trying to fix something that isn’t broken.
Tell us how your relationship keeps you happy and satisfied with your partner. All answers are welcome in the comment section below.
