Falling in love is a heavenly feeling, but falling out of love is something which hurts more than a hundred broken bones. Falling out of love and breaking up are two different things. Breaking up with someone you once loved a lot takes more courage than you can ever think of. A graceful breakup is something alien to us. It’s not something we see happening much around us. It’s more like a utopia and something which happens in movies only. But a little more poise and mental approach can help you achieve a graceful ending to your love affair. Read on to get some insights about clues and tips to handle the relationship dilemmas.
1. Break up by face-to-face interaction.
Never ever break up over phone or texts. This is the meanest thing you can do to your partner. Positive communication is the best way to make you other half understand the need of the situation. You both willingly entered into a relationship, now when it’s coming to its end, it should be just you two to decide the fate of this alliance. No third person should be allowed to invade your personal space.
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2. Don’t hold grudges
When you decide to make a conversation with him about the same, make a point to clear all the doubts. Don’t hold hard feelings for your partner and don’t let him do the same. Make him very clear about your reason to end the relationship. When things are meant to happen, they will find a way out. It is better to accept god’s will and part your ways with dignity. There’s no point blaming each other.
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3. Be honest without hurting his ego
Some people continue to be in a relationship just because they don’t want to take up the task of belling the cat first. You have virtually broken up with him a million of times, but in real life, you can’t just muster the courage to take the big step. In such case, we would just advise you to be honest and don’t play with the feelings of your partner. Don’t hurt the feelings of the one who was once your world. Treat him with respect and you’ll be treated with the same dignity.
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4. Let others know about your breakup in a lucid manner
Don’t speak ill about each other on a social platform. Don’t unfriend and block each other. What’s the point in ending up your relationship on a bitter note? Be in touch with each other to control any social rumours about you two. And make up in your mind, not to speak ill of each other.
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5. Don’t isolate yourself.
You’re not going to get out of the breakup trauma overnight. It will happen gradually and in layers. You should never lose touch with your family and friends. A break up never means that the world has stopped spinning around. Use the power of socialization to rejuvenate yourself and start your life with a new note.
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