Women and men are discrete from each other. And we have to admit it that this dissimilarity makes a perfect yin-yang balance in a relationship. But don’t you think there are certain things that women have been doing wrong on their part? No matter how nice your man is, making the same mistakes over and over again can make your Mr Right sway away gradually. A popular psychologist has studied and observed the human behaviour and has landed up to this conclusion. Women make these 10 common mistakes in a relationship, which they shouldn’t be doing. Let’s check it out what these are.
1. Don’t Be Over Generous
Giving is an integral part of a relationship. But make sure that it is not always one sided. Don’t give to such an extent that you have to put your own concerns at stake. If you think that some things being wrong at his part, then you forgive him first. But if that happens over and over again, then it’s definitely not a mistake. It’s high time to end your relationship.
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2. Don’t make him your ‘Only’ priority
Women have this bad thing in them. Giving their boyfriends too much priority than they deserve. They make their partner their whole life that their own personal life shrinks to minimal. Learn to have your personal life. Enjoy being in your own social circle. Women tend to lose contact with their friends once they enter into a relationship. This is not the same with the men. So don’t do what the other women are already doing. Friends are important too. Make time for them.
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3. Don’t Stick to Your Spouse All the Time
Some distances are good for your relationship. If you tend to stick to your partner 24×7, he’s going to feel suffocated sooner or later. Let him breathe a little air. Let him miss you when you’re not around. Give him a chance to miss you. Pamper yourself, spend time on yourself while your partner is having some me-time with his friends. Sit back and relax.
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4. Do not forgive every single time
Yes, people do deserve forgiveness and you do deserve some peace. But if he’s making a mistake in an annoying pattern, then this is a red flag that a step has to be taken soon. Don’t apologise every time even when it’s not your fault. It’s not always your duty to save the relationship. Never for the sake of heaven, tolerate toxic behaviours of your partner.
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5. Don’t Ignore Yourself
Many women stop taking care of themselves as soon as they meet their significant other. But this shouldn’t be reminded of you one more time, which you need to care for yourself for yourself! Self-love is important as well. Love yourself and pamper yourself as much as you can. Don’t mortgage your comforts all the time for the sake of your boyfriend.
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6. Don’t Lose Your Identity
Some women even sacrifice their career and their job just to please their partner. You have a hobby or you’re willing to do some social work? Then go out and make it happen. Don’t let your partner or your relationship weigh down your personal life. Cherish your individuality and your partner will love you for who you are.
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7. Don’t Be Dependent On Your Partner for Financial Needs
This is the call of the hour. A woman should be independent these days. Financial security will boost your self-esteem more than anything. And you wouldn’t like your partner nagging out how he supports you financially, every time you have a scuffle with him.
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8. Don’t Be Over-Honest to Your Partner
Over transparency can make you vulnerable. You should set a certain limit to what you’re sharing with your partner. And one thing more, he shouldn’t be the only one you’re sharing your secrets with. Make sure that you have another confidante you’re sharing your secrets with.
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9. Don’t Be Over Emotional with Your Partner
Being emotionally attached to your spouse is natural. But you shouldn’t rely completely on your partner for emotional support. What in case he leaves your side? You should have at least 2 to 3 support systems. Your friends and family should be equally supporting to you.
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10. Do Not Trust Blindly
Trust is the basic element of any relationship. Trust your partner but keep your eyes open for any red flags. If there are certain behavioural changes in your partner, then confront him about it. After, communication is the only way to have a healthy relationship.
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