This is an era of everything instant; instant noodles, instant soup, instant friendship, instant love, instant sex and… instant break up! Everyone seems to have lost hope when it comes to love. But what exactly happened to our ‘Happy Endings’? Our fairy-tale like love stories? Have they left us to linger on it in our memories and of course in ‘Bollywood’ or is it still there? Whatever the reason might be, but we have somehow accepted the fact that it’s not that easy to find true love. Here are some reasons why finding love is somewhat like ‘Mission Impossible’ these days.
1. People have become impatient
Your pizza gets delivered in 30 minutes. So now we can make out how impatient we have become. We can’t be patient on something as trivial as pizza, then being patient in a relationship is something far beyond our limits. We seem to have forgotten the fact that anything worth never comes easy. So if the next time you meet a person who loves and you love him/her right back, then don’t give up on him/her easily like it never meant anything to you.
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2. People give up easily
Gone are the days when the bulbs are fixed when they stop working. Today, we find a replacement for everything which isn’t beneficial to us in any way. This trait of ours finds correlation with being impatient. People have forgotten how to hold on to things for long.
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3. We have become commitment-phobic
This the most precise reason why most of the people are seen running away from love. Unfortunately, the youth has been thrown into this misbelief that love will bind you to the treacherous bondages of marriage, family, and kids. They believe that getting into these affairs will hinder their quest for success. This fear of coming out their comfort zones will not only affect their personal life but their professional well.
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4. Busy lifestyle
Today’s youth is in some sort of a race of getting ahead of each other. They are always running as if they are trying to surpass time. Their work-home cycle doesn’t leave any time for any personal and deep interaction with anyone. Even if they indulge in any kind of romantic relationship with anyone, lack of time and communication eventually fade the love away.
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5. Fear of heartbreaks
Most of us have been through at least one heartbreak, this is the reason why we are scared of falling in love again. We always have this in our head that the person might leave us in the middle of nowhere. But there is a difference between what’s going on in our head and what the reality is. It is better to open your eyes and realise things before taking nasty decisions which might fill you with regret later.
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