And you thought men were the biggest cheaters on earth who think about sex every time and value it more than a relation. The revelations made by these researchers at Indiana University and Kinsley Institute are going to change your perception forever.
You should know that myths about sex have taken a toll on the healthiest relationships on this earth. Because when a person walks down the aisle with mind preoccupied with several sex myths, he or she fails to get emotionally attached to partner in the bedroom. As a result, differences between the two brews up which sometimes leads to very unpleasant scenes. In some cases, the matter even reaches to divorce level. So it is necessary to get rid of these sex myths from the mind before walking down the aisle so that you will feel attached to your partner both physically as well as emotionally.
1. Sex dominates the thoughts of males
There is a common myth about males in the minds of many females that they think sex every time and the purpose of coming close to a girl or a woman is just this thing. But it is not true. A study conducted by Kinsley Institute figures out that less than 50% men think about sex many times in the day. According to the study, 43% males think about sex just a few times in a month and a small chunk of males about 4% once in a month. Though the figures may vary from study to study, but it can be concluded that sex is not the only thing that men keep on thinking about during the day and after every seven seconds seems definitely not.
2. Infidelity is a born trait of males
Infidelity is the born trait of males as in most cheating scandals, men surface out as culprits. No, it is not so as far as the findings of the Indiana University study are concerned, infidelity is same in both males as well as females, but male infidelity is glorified more than the female. Lack of proper communication and understanding results in infidelity, so it is necessary for partners to share their joys and sorrows with each other if they want to remain loyal to each other.
3. Men with small Penis no fit for marriage
The size of the private organ is one more issue that lowers the confidence of many males. Men with small penis size, lack the confidence of satisfying their partner in the bed. These men are then conned by thugs in the market who sell them medicines worth thousands of rupees but of no avail. When nothing seems to work for them, they tend to end their life by taking an extreme step like suicide.
It is important for these men not to get influenced by the porn movies, thug Babas and Hakeems. They should mean it that the size of the male organ has nothing to do with the sex pleasure.
“On an average, the woman’s vagina is between four and six inches. And only the external third of the vagina is sensitive. The inner two-third is virtually insensitive. By that logic anything starting from a two-inch penis should be able to arouse a woman. So if you are a man with a small penis, I would advise you to focus on the external genitalia, because that is what matters,” says well-known sexologist, Dr. Prakash Kothari.
4. Men hardly value relationships
Is that that men marry because they need sex and the relationship hardly value for them? No, it is not as far as the view of Wake Forest University psychology professor Andrew Smiler is concerned. He says that like females, men also need physical and emotional intimacy in the relationship.
“The Casanova myth is so deeply ingrained that people are convinced that boys who claim to want relationships rather than casual sex are either incredibly rare or full of crap.” Now there are not just a few good men, are there,” says Andrew Smiler.
