What did you get married for? Just to have a day-and-night companion? Understanding this unique relationship is as difficult as it is to understand why the water is wet!!! Sounds weird, doesn’t it???
The life of a human being goes through many stages and as a matter of fact the person doesn’t even notice when he or she has moved from one stage to another.
You find a life-partner either yourself or leave that task to your parents. Finally with everything clarified with your parents and those of your partner, you get married. The real beauty of marriage is not about how well ceremonies took place but the way how you maintain your relationship in the coming years!!!
When you are unable to save your marriage, you end up breaking it with a legal procedure called divorce. Divorce is a single word but its meaning holds great embarrassment.
Possible Reasons for Divorce:
- Ego problems: Sometimes the husband or wife tries to underestimate the other just because he or she is carrier wise and financially more successful than him or her. This creates differences between the two.
- Excessive drinking: Having a drink for celebration on particular occasions is acceptable. Husband and wife both can together enjoy such occasions. But if any one of them drinks heavily on a regular basis, it disturbs his state of mind causing him to behave badly with the companion. It may prove to be a threat to their marriage in the long run.
- Abusing the partner: Abusing your companion in any manner, be it physical, verbal or sexual is not only dangerous for your marriage but also a crime. Beating the companion, forced sexual relationship and usage of vulgar language may force him or her to quit the marriage.
- Suspicion beyond limits: If you unnecessarily suspect your partner to be having an affair with another person just because he or she was talking to a friend, you are getting your marriage in trouble. If you don’t trust your partner, he or she will lose interest in sharing their life with you.
Your marriage can successfully last for several years if you take certain initiatives for it!!! You must avoid the possibilities for divorce as far as possible… so think about it and start taking an action!!!
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